minoanmiss: Minoan lady holding a bright white star (Lady With Star)
[personal profile] minoanmiss
My friend [personal profile] acelightning has died and I don't even know what to say. With all thanks to [personal profile] contrarywise for letting us know.

I just -- I can't proprly phrase right now what she meant to me, all the ways her presence in my life changed me for good, all her awesomenesses. Hav this essay she wrote about herself.

Why I Am The Woman Who Made Friends With Electricity

I'm going to miss you so much, Ace. I'm glad you saw the Solstice.

Date: 2025-06-28 07:42 pm (UTC)
corvidology: Young Frankenstein ([EMO] HUGS MONSTER)
From: [personal profile] corvidology
May her memory be a blessing. ♥

Date: 2025-06-28 07:48 pm (UTC)
full_metal_ox: A gold Chinese Metal Ox zodiac charm. (Default)
From: [personal profile] full_metal_ox
Then I hope she’s in second-wave Neopagan Elysium with her departed loved ones and all her friends from Bulfinch’s, enjoying Hestia’s bread and Inari’s rice and riding purple lightning bolts to the strains of “The Immigrant Song.”

And/or has returned to her native dimension, since she was pretty clearly an SFF protagonist.

A quote of hers from earlier this year:

... with monotheistic theology rewritten
and leaving out Victorian-era infant mortality:

Now I lay me down to sleep;
Gods, keep my nightmares buried deep
And, keep me safe until I wake -
I’ve things to do and roads to take.


(Source: https://acelightning73.dreamwidth.org/42500.html#comments
Edited Date: 2025-06-28 07:58 pm (UTC)

Date: 2025-06-28 09:32 pm (UTC)
gingicat: woman in a green dress and cloak holding a rose, looking up at snow falling down on her (Default)
From: [personal profile] gingicat
Oh, that's lovely.

Date: 2025-07-02 11:41 am (UTC)
jenny_evergreen: (Love Travels)
From: [personal profile] jenny_evergreen
Thanks for this.

Date: 2025-06-28 07:48 pm (UTC)
rydra_wong: Lee Miller photo showing two women wearing metal fire masks in England during WWII. (Default)
From: [personal profile] rydra_wong
I'm so so sorry.

Date: 2025-06-28 07:49 pm (UTC)
musesfool: jar of flower petals, spilling (but there is this)
From: [personal profile] musesfool
I'm so sorry for your loss. *hugs*

Date: 2025-06-28 07:49 pm (UTC)
cmcmck: (Default)
From: [personal profile] cmcmck
She had so much of an affect on so many of us!

Date: 2025-06-28 08:14 pm (UTC)
pameladean: (Default)
From: [personal profile] pameladean
Oh no, I am so so sorry. I'm stunned, that's awful. She made the quirkiest, most original comments with such good heart.

P.

Date: 2025-06-28 08:20 pm (UTC)
sage: two polar bears embracing (bear hug original)
From: [personal profile] sage
I'm so sorry for your loss. She sounds like an amazing person.

Date: 2025-06-28 08:45 pm (UTC)
princessofgeeks: Shane smiling, caption Canada's Shane Hollander (Default)
From: [personal profile] princessofgeeks
Oh no! I would run into her on DW here and there. I am so sorry.

Date: 2025-06-28 08:58 pm (UTC)
bikergeek: cartoon bald guy with a half-smile (Default)
From: [personal profile] bikergeek
I'm sorry for your loss. A loss to all of us who read your DW, really--I enjoyed her comments here, and I am sad that I will never get to meet her in person.

Date: 2025-06-28 08:59 pm (UTC)
asakiyume: (far horizon)
From: [personal profile] asakiyume
Yours is the account where I would see her comments. I'm so sorry for your loss ;_;

Date: 2025-06-28 09:46 pm (UTC)
jadelennox: Senora Sabasa Garcia, by Goya (Default)
From: [personal profile] jadelennox

I am so sorry for your loss. May her memory be a blessing. 💛

Date: 2025-06-28 10:00 pm (UTC)
teenybuffalo: (Default)
From: [personal profile] teenybuffalo
This is awful. I'm so sorry to hear it.

Date: 2025-06-28 10:27 pm (UTC)
lb_lee: Raige making a horrified face. (D:)
From: [personal profile] lb_lee
Jeez, really? Feels like she was just here, commenting... that's too bad...

I'll miss her, too

Date: 2025-06-28 10:54 pm (UTC)
dialecticdreamer: My work (Default)
From: [personal profile] dialecticdreamer
I didn't know her well, but I certainly enjoyed her comments on my stories.

For those who lost a friend, may her memory be a blessing.

Date: 2025-06-28 10:58 pm (UTC)
sabotabby: raccoon anarchy symbol (Default)
From: [personal profile] sabotabby
*hugs* I'm so very sorry. I didn't know her but you can judge people but the friends they have and she was friends with some of the most wonderful people I know on here, and thus my heart grieves for them.

Date: 2025-06-28 11:21 pm (UTC)
mific: (safe to sea)
From: [personal profile] mific
I'm really going to miss her purple text comments. *hugs*

Date: 2025-06-28 11:28 pm (UTC)
sovay: (PJ Harvey: crow)
From: [personal profile] sovay
Her memory for a blessing. I'm so sorry. Much love.

Date: 2025-06-29 01:09 am (UTC)
goss: Hugs - teddybears (Hugs - teddybears)
From: [personal profile] goss
I'm so sorry. *hugs* I enjoyed reading her comments in your journal.

Date: 2025-06-29 02:31 am (UTC)
gwydion: (Default)
From: [personal profile] gwydion
There are never words adequate in these situations. I will be thinking of you.

Date: 2025-06-29 02:35 am (UTC)
dissectionist: A digital artwork of a biomechanical horse, head and shoulder only. It’s done in shades of grey and black and there are alien-like spines and rib-like structures over its body. (Default)
From: [personal profile] dissectionist
I am so sorry, my friend. 💜

Date: 2025-06-29 04:00 am (UTC)
cellio: (Default)
From: [personal profile] cellio

I am sorry for your loss. I kept bumping into her in comments in your journal and thinking that I should get to know her better. There is never enough time. :-(

Date: 2025-06-29 04:25 am (UTC)
magid: (Default)
From: [personal profile] magid
I’m so sorry for your loss. May her memory be for a blessing.

Date: 2025-06-29 09:53 am (UTC)
amaebi: black fox (Default)
From: [personal profile] amaebi
*love*

I am so sorry for your loss.

I can't wish you an easy digestion of it, but I wish you a nourishing one.

Date: 2025-06-29 01:08 pm (UTC)
lunabee34: (Default)
From: [personal profile] lunabee34
I'm so sorry for your loss.

*hugs*

I wish peace and healing for you and everyone else who loves her.

Date: 2025-06-29 03:30 pm (UTC)
petra: Ahsoka Tano and Rex hugging from Star Wars Rebels. (Ahsoka & Rex - HUG)
From: [personal profile] petra
I'm so sorry for your loss, and for the world's loss.

Date: 2025-06-29 09:28 pm (UTC)
jesse_the_k: foggy playground roundabout kissed with sunlight and rainbows (Clouds lost youth)
From: [personal profile] jesse_the_k

So sorry for your loss, and ours.

Date: 2025-06-29 09:42 pm (UTC)
hitchhiker: image of "don't panic" towel with a rocketship and a 42 (Default)
From: [personal profile] hitchhiker
oh no :( may her memory be a blessing

Date: 2025-06-30 01:16 am (UTC)
julian: Picture of the sign for Julian Street. (Default)
From: [personal profile] julian
*hugs*. One of those *extremely themselves* people.

Date: 2025-07-02 08:32 pm (UTC)
full_metal_ox: A gold Chinese Metal Ox zodiac charm. (Default)
From: [personal profile] full_metal_ox
She was the girl who wasn’t even like the girls who Weren’t Like The Other Girls.
Edited Date: 2025-07-02 08:35 pm (UTC)

Date: 2025-07-03 07:53 pm (UTC)
jenny_evergreen: (Think Deeply)
From: [personal profile] jenny_evergreen
Yes! Me, too. That's why we got along so well. <3

Date: 2025-06-30 02:15 am (UTC)
contrarywise: (big tree)
From: [personal profile] contrarywise
Thanks for helping to spread the word. She was a prolific commenter, and many people knew her in that context. I'll miss seeing her purple text pop up in the comments and her own posts as well.

Date: 2025-06-30 12:07 pm (UTC)
claudia603: (Default)
From: [personal profile] claudia603
I'm so sorry about your loss. ***fierce big hugs*** As others have said, "may her memory be a blessing."

Date: 2025-06-30 02:37 pm (UTC)
lynnenne: (mood: hug)
From: [personal profile] lynnenne
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Date: 2025-07-01 11:30 pm (UTC)
flamingsword: “No words, just empathy” (Just empathy)
From: [personal profile] flamingsword
I grieve with you.

Date: 2025-07-02 11:34 am (UTC)
jenny_evergreen: (Love Travels)
From: [personal profile] jenny_evergreen
I just got the news. *hugs*